Dropping The Mask: From Stagecraft to Soulcraft with Jesse Wilson

Season #6

What if the mask you've been wearing to protect yourself is the exact thing keeping you from being believed, trusted, and truly seen?  

In this episode of The Grace Space, I sit down with Jesse Wilson — Juilliard-trained actor, founder of Tell The Winning Story, and the creator of the Victim-to-Victor approach — for a conversation that goes straight to the heart of judgment, authenticity, and what it really means to drop the mask.  

Jesse and I trained together at Juilliard, but our paths split in wild directions — mine into coaching and personal transformation after 25 years in the business, his into prisons across Colorado, where he co-developed a theater program with inmates and addicts, and eventually into courtrooms across the country, coaching trial attorneys and witnesses on how to tell the truth of their story without performing victimhood.  

We talk about: 

- Why "authentic" doesn't mean the absence of performance — it means removing judgment 

- The Victim-to-Victor approach, and why the word "can't" can quietly sabotage credibility 

- How mask work in the theater mirrors the psychological armor we all wear 

- "Embrace the suck" — why struggle, not polish, is what makes people believe you 

- The four-step process Jesse uses to help witnesses (and all of us) reconnect to what's real 

- Becoming the compassionate witness to your own life  

If you've ever felt like you had to earn the right to be seen — this one's for you.  

Read the blog post associated with this episode.

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